7 steps to maintain the erotic attraction in your Relationship

 

Nowadays, we are called to maintain the erotic attraction in our relationship mainly for pleasure and connection, while in the past the erotic act was mainly aimed for childbirth or it was woman’s duty in a marriage.

How is the erotic desire maintained in a relationship or in a marriage?

The main obstacles that affect us are the routine of the daily life and other various stressful factors such as our finances, health issues and so on. Another key factor that negatively affects on the erotic desire is when our partner needs a lot of care and attention from us. Additionally, as time goes on in a relationship, we do not feel the same attraction, because there is great intimacy, so our need for the unknown, the mystery and the adventure is not fulfilled anymore by our relationship.

So, what can you do to maintain the erotic attraction alive in your relationship?

  1. Grow your self-confidence. The more confidence you transmit, the more the pole of attraction you are for your partner. If you aren’t the top fun of your own self, how will your partner be?
  2. Cover as much of your needs as you can, by yourself. When we feel that our partner ‘strongly needs us’, then this works negatively in maintaining the erotic attraction, as we are called to adopt the role of the parent.
  3. Get involved as much as you can in activities you like and feel motivated, because in this way you shine in the eyes of your partner.
  4. Use your imagination as much as you can, by surprising your partner periodically.
  5. Watch from a distance your partner, as he deals with his passion, because this works aphrodisiacally. For example, we can just watch our partner talk and monopolize the interest of friends or acquaintances. The key here, is to see your partner with the eyes of ‘admiration’.
  6. Create a little time away from your partner. The distance excites our need for mystery and adventure and this creates attraction. When you return, the erotic desire will be renewed. Also, take time to relax so you can have physically energy.
  7. Invest in common activities that give to both of you joy and laughter. Laugh together, with all of your heart, doing everything that fills you with joy.

Maintaining the erotic attraction is feasible as we are in balance with ourselves and we emit positivity. As we feel that we are evolving, the erotic attraction in our relationship is maintained. By applying the above practices and by adopting creativity and imagination, the erotic desire will be kept alive in our intimate relationship!