The most important relationship you will ever have is the one with yourself. And if you don’t love yourself, how can you say you love anybody else? As the Greek philosopher Plato in his work “Symposium” stated, “like attracts like”. If you love yourself, this love is transmitted to all of your relationships. Self love will attract more love into your life and a loving partner as well.

The beneficial concept of self love requires unconditional love. When your self love is conditional, you will love yourself when you look the way you think you should look, when you get your ideal job or when you are in your ideal relationship. Is this description close, to the beneficial concept of self love? Self love, is loving and accepting yourself, as the way you are, right now, without your ideal conditions. Self love is looking at the mirror in the morning and saying to yourself “I love you, just the way you are”. People, who have kids, may resonate more easily with this concept of unconditional love. This beneficial concept, suggests that if your child destroys a loving object of yours or does something similar to that, because of ignorance, you get furious, but at the same time you love your child as the way he or she is, no matter what he or she did. This kind of love is beneficial for you. Relate to yourself with the beneficial concept of self Love and acceptance and notice more love flowing into your life.