The 5 reasons you attract the “same type” of men

Most of the women, I meet within the practice of Coaching, are wondering why they repeatedly attract the “same type” of men and make relationships with them, without having the satisfaction they want. As a result, they break up. The positive aspect with these women is that they have realized that they are accountable for their choices and they are ready to create a new result in their intimate relationship while they speak to me.

The 5 main reasons of making “inappropriate” men’s choices are the following:

  1. The men’s choice lies in the unconscious. The women are unconsciously attracted by the ‘‘familiar’’ model of men they experienced within their family and relationships, although this model is not for their favor. The practice of Coaching allows us to recognize and consciously change this model choice.
  2. The ambiguity of the men’s ideal characteristics. Which characteristics do you want in your partner? Which characteristics you do not want in your partner? How much aware are you regarding these characteristics? By practicing coaching you can find what is important for you and the relationship you want to create in order to attract it consciously.
  3. Lack of knowing your desires from a relationship. It is very common to meet women, which have commitment issues, fear to create family and are possessed by respective fears, although they declare that they want to get married. In this case, we can identify what you truly want, releasing your limiting fears and beliefs. In this way, you will attract a partner that has a common agenda and goals as you.
  4. The non-application of the ideal characteristics you desire on yourself. Quantum Physics principle indicates that we attract what we emit. How is it possible for a woman to ask for a sweet and tender man, when at the same time she is neither sweet nor tender? At this point, you can start wondering how you can develop and improve on yourself those characteristics you seek in your partner.
  5. Lack of communication with your partner. Communication is vital for the outcome of a relationship. The effective communication will ensure the satisfaction of your relationship, because your desires and needs will be clear to both you and your partner. You can create a good foundation for the healthy development of your relationship with effective communication.

It is up to you and your power to attract the model of the man you desire! Contact me for a free session at http://www.minataliaki.com/life-coaching-athina