The process of acquainting someone is delightful as long as you’re in a pleasant mood and you have good intentions. You can have a nice time as you get the chance to explore a new personality, make a new acquaintance and have fun. By getting to know a new man you learn things about yourself too.

These are the 7 steps for a successful date:

1. Do not have any expectations. As I previously said the primary purpose of the meeting is to get to know each other and have fun. An acquaintance may end up to be a relationship, a friendship or nothing special depending on your chemistry. An acquaintance needs time and the only way to find out if you’re compatible with the person you’re dating is to give it time. Women tend to wonder if this is the man of their life, but these expectations are no good as the outcome of this experience is unknown.
2. Be your true self. Authenticity is very important. When you act like yourself you are comfortable and your date goes well. You don’t need to pretend that you’re someone else because truth will come out after a while. Also, I hope that you’ve posted real photos of you on social media because he will be very disappointed if you have caused him to create a fake image of you that is completely different than the real you. Use a real photo of you which reveals your beauty.
3. Ask questions without constantly talking about yourself. A healthy conversation during the first date includes basic questions about your interlocutor’s life.  Focus on what’s important for him now without overanalyzing. The conversation should flow naturally and you should focus only on what’s going well in your life.
4. Maintain your femininity. Accept your date’s attention, care and initiative. Let him choose your destination, come pick you up etc. Speak and move in a feminine way. Smile with all your heart and show your date you’re enjoying his company. Also, show him how much a man’s presence in your life matters to you. Most women are independent nowadays, but they have forgotten the value of a man and his love.
5. Discuss positive topics. It’s unnecessary to talk about your political and religious beliefs. You don’t need to talk about couples who break up or analyze how you got hurt by your previous relationship either. For example, if your experience with men has been unpleasant in some cases you shouldn’t bring that up. There are many pleasant topics to discuss. Focus on what goes well around the world and you’ll discover plenty of interesting topics.
6. Avoid having sex on the first date. It’s better to avoid inviting him home on the first date. Studies have shown that men lose fast their interest in women who have sex with them on the first date. The mystery fades away fast and men don’t feel special because they assume women act the same way with every man they date.
7. Focus on your date’s positive traits. When your intension is to discover your date’s positive traits he will express the good side of his personality to a greater extent. We all have our flaws, but when we focus on our strengths we put more energy into them. Knowing what you expect from a possible partner will enable you to assess your compatibility fast.