Do you dream of being in a healthy relationship experiencing love, trust, passion, acceptance, joy, communication, but you end up counting unsuccessful dates and dead-end relationships?

The reason for this is that you seek in another person values you need to experience on your own. The values you seek in someone are the following:

• Love
• Acceptance
• Safety
• Acknowledgement
• Significance
• Completion
• Happiness

Being loved, accepted and significant, as well as feeling safe are some of the most basic needs everyone has. Do you imagine expecting someone else to meet these needs for you? This means that you radiate a sense of lack and that will prevent you from attracting your ideal partner.

Looking for a relationship while unconsciously you feel incomplete is a guaranteed recipe for failure. Chances are you will attract your counterpart, namely an “incomplete relationship”. Adopt a new empowering mindset which suggests that “Every day I am complete and happy in every way.” To support your new mindset, ask yourself smart questions like the following:

1. When do I feel love in my life?
2. How can I experience more love, acceptance and happiness in my life?
3. When do I feel significant?
4. When do I feel happy?
5. When do I feel complete?

Your answers shouldn’t include the presence of a partner and ofcourse you should act on them. Work on answering the above questions and very soon you are going to feel emotionally “complete”.

Enjoy the drops of joy a moment brings you and always remember that “happiness is a choice”.